From 8fd37053ea1ef00ead3a5f9ad3441ff6a8dc5bf7 Mon Sep 17 00:00:00 2001 From: Justin Lin Date: Tue, 11 Nov 2025 16:38:32 +1100 Subject: [PATCH] =?UTF-8?q?=E6=9B=B4=E6=96=B0=E8=BC=AF=E4=B8=80?= MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; charset=UTF-8 Content-Transfer-Encoding: 8bit --- 3-study/1.0-index.md | 4 +++- narcissism.epub | Bin 208140 -> 208617 bytes 2 files changed, 3 insertions(+), 1 deletion(-) diff --git a/3-study/1.0-index.md b/3-study/1.0-index.md index c84e05e..698e5b5 100644 --- a/3-study/1.0-index.md +++ b/3-study/1.0-index.md @@ -1,3 +1,5 @@ # 輯一、自戀研究室 -研究室系列的文章主要是從精神分析理論的觀點,來探討自戀發展的意涵。藉由對於早期生命的心理經驗的探索,了解這些成長經驗如何影響成人的心理狀態。我整理出三個自戀成長最關鍵的因素:「涵容」、「鏡映」與「理想化」,稱之為「自戀三部曲」,它們不僅適用於兒童成長的重要階段,也讓我們知道要如何去面對自己與他人的自戀困擾。 +我在診間看青少年個案時,典型的場景就是不說話的小孩,與不斷要求小孩說話的父母;或是父母不停地說小孩的問題,然後小孩生氣地否認,甚至吵架。這些情況通常在請父母暫時離開診間一段時間後,多數小孩都可以表達出他們的感受與想法。不是我會談技巧特別厲害,而是很多小孩已經放棄對父母說話了!我只是願意好好地「聽」而已。聽小孩說話的這件事情看似簡單,但有一些重點往往被忽略了,最終導致親子間溝通的困難;而且這不僅僅溝通的問題而已,它還會深刻地影響兒童心智的發展。 + +研究室系列的文章主要是從精神分析理論的觀點,來探討自戀發展的意涵。首先藉由對於早期生命的心理經驗的描述,讓讀者對於兒童心智狀態有初步的了解;接著說明「自戀」在早期階段發展的歷程,以及這些成長經驗如何影響成人的心理狀態。我整理出三個自戀成長最關鍵的因素:「涵容」、「鏡映」與「理想化」,稱之為「自戀三部曲」,它們不僅適用於兒童成長的重要階段,也讓我們知道要如何去「聆聽」自己與他人的自戀困擾。 diff --git a/narcissism.epub b/narcissism.epub index 1fa4ac2fb728c14a80cd9a684590af60e8ec39ff..66a54f2951427214d1db6123f90a26ec14b0a7c2 100644 GIT binary patch delta 6189 zcmZXY2Uru!7ROTvp@bepI!K4mi&QBJT#86hq=SVjp{jI(iXa`NtVr*IG(n2eBLaeS z5CoATT?M2Uk(Wj8d+&Pp%eRyN>~GFFb9UxzHj!hfr3n;DUk6TvhQLT5kT;k(lq`&J z)|e!mE_d^oPc-ppv8dqp!__VJv&s(OjhGA{9UfSn!h zdFQeu_d_jKyGq2wmQ&GyM~9biF%7dq!Vt-}kl?l%U9l>>XlAcg!%j#r*=?dQGdI_4 zu+&!XB~$)n5A~RbTdcTJ**(dm@u7ga{2e?JFQusSf-Xk5ZxnO8Nn3`E6cqXIk%@ai-acys?1tN zva+$WPF1N%NQ91Lg`Jh;t%vo*;W_F-yyeMf4NRNzhery6W!$XgUquZo^j>|fP?l3= zKj9ZT-6rZ9&2Fjq>CuPiIvt#Pm#4j_7rr1yLC9}nE^l$gccFh`Z40Mnf9J)<&kT~6bWIgLxS(|sl<>2=H7X2hnES${wcF<6Nf_~OS;vgl!bxTBW+E3u+pcc z_c81#L#$!~*hdSr*mJ0iLniD|{A@m}qf>pPcD=!<#+V_UWr#SK z?mFDKs?d<+<|964@%^0X*AJ|BN3EarBg{CBor?_OuK*U0zQ 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